|Camels laughing at your prejudices in Jaisalmer|
But then again, doesn’t that happen in Western countries as well? I never felt unsafe even when I was walking around the cities on my own. After all, it was just looks – no one tried to touch me. Even the comments I overheard were, even if sometimes delivered in a flirty tone, as innocent as ‘nice hair’ or ‘beautiful’. Of course it helps to be smart. I avoided walking alone in the dark, I didn’t strike up conversations with guys unless it was shopkeepers, rickshaw drivers or someone similar, and even then I sort of kept my guard up, and I tried to wander around in places with lots of people, tourists, or women and children around.
|wow I’m so threatened in Varanasi|
Women’s safety is an issue widely discussed in India these days. After the rape case in 2012 (which I was reading about in Moscow before my flight to Delhi – probably #1 on list of things not to do before you go to a country is to read about it’s most horrific crimes) there was an outcry for attention to women’s issues, which might stem from the hugely male dominated culture. Nowadays protecting women from harassment is taken seriously, and in public transportation there are even specific women’s sections. It is hard to travel the country as a woman, though, because a lot of men don’t simply talk to you. I had heard of this practice but was still left gaping in dismay when your hostel receptionist blatantly ignored my question and started talking to Ben. At first I thought it was because their respect for women was so low women weren’t considered worthy to talk to, but an Indian guy we met in a Jaipur hostel had a different view on the matter. According to him, men are often afraid to talk to women in case this could be understood as harassment. Having this “power” had it’s perks; when Ben couldn’t shake persistent touts and taxi drivers off his back, one polite and firm ‘no thank you’ from me was often enough to lose them. However, it’s not worth not being talked to.
And it’s annoying. Of course it is. Sometimes in the biggest tourist centres it almost felt like we were not even humans but monkeys. An Indian guy would in plain sight put his camera on my face and snap a picture, then get angry if confronted. In shops some of the clerks seemed to be conspiring to figure out how to squeeze as much money out of me as possible.
What you have to remember though is that we’re talking about a population of more than a billion here. Most of the people we met were genuinely happy to help and talk about their country. After two days of exhausting encounters with all kinds of touts in Delhi we arrived in Rishikesh ready to distrust every single person. A guy selling mangoes who helped us find our hotel was surprised and saddened by our attitude. He told that he had heard similar stories from tourists and said he wished more Indians could see the benefit in making tourists feel like home, because it would eventually help the country itself. Some locals that we explained our ordeals to actually apologised on behalf of all India, even though I didn’t see the need in that. All in all I’d say India is the same as everywhere – there are both good and bad people, and people that are a little bit of both.
But does it happen to everybody? I never experienced any of Delhi Belly, in fact, for the better part of the trip my stomach was functioning even better than it often does at home. (Yes, I just wrote that because it is painstakingly normal to discuss bodily functions at the dinner table in India. Only with other backpackers that can relate, though. Maybe chit chat about something nicer with actual locals.) I did lactic acid bacteria for half of the trip and after I ran out of them, I started getting mild stomach cramps, too, so I would definitely recommend getting similar kind of medicine to give your immune system a heads-up that something dodgy might be coming its way.
Oh, but I did get a cold in India, because why the hell not. This is one of those things that could only happen to me,
Westernising India is trying to tackle these issues as best as it can and as the progress continues, the country will slowly become cleaner and cleaner. However, until the caste system has been completely erased in people’s minds, there will be little done to the wealth gap.
|Just your friendly neighbourhood goat watch in Jodhpur|
Myth: Public transportation is a disgrace and trains are always late.
Truth: We had had our doubts about travelling within India before arriving, so the first time we stepped into a train we were nervously excited. You know those pictures that you sometimes see of train carriages loaded with humans? As a foreign tourist I doubt you would ever end up in one of those carriages. In general the carriages are simple but relatively well-kept – I’ve seen public trains in worse condition in Australia. As to trains always being late… I’d say it was about fifty-fifty for us.
In Delhi there’s also a metro system that is parallel to those in Western countries in quality. It is weird stepping down from the noisy, dusty streets into this modern underground train with spotless structures and AC. It’s like you forget for a second where you are until a rush of every freaking person on Earth jams into the same car and you find yourself unable to even move. Definitely take the metro outside of rush hours.
Buses tended to be a bit more sticky. Seat belts are pretty much unheard of, and some of the buses are clearly made thinking of the skinny Indian figure. Ben was pretty much a head taller and half broader than a normal Indian guy and just looked like someone had taken his kitten away when he first witnessed the tiny little bus that we had to spend twelve hours in.
|All nice&cozy in sleeper class|
And yes, there are a lot of accidents on the road. India’s road and rail systems are still developing, and with the vastness of their network they take a lot of work to maintain as monsoon rains and landslides take their toll on them. There’s also many kinds of different vehicles from cycle-rickshaws to brand new Mercedeses, not to mention dogs, cows, monkeys and people, on the roads, so everybody’s going at a different pace. However, India doesn’t even come close to the countries with highest fatality rates in road accidents. In the cities there is often so much traffic that driving fast is impossible which also helps to prevent crashes.
Myth: It’s difficult to travel in India.
Truth: Even though millions of tourists travel to India every single year, the country’s tourist industry hasn’t yet reached it’s full potential. This is about to change, however, as this new young generation of travellers is starting to explore India. The concept of a hostel is still moderately unknown to Indians, but more and more are popping up in the biggest cities, and I’d say that within the next five or ten years the country’s tourist industry – as well as the whole country – will have experiences a drastic face lift.
As things are now, it feels that they are doing things in a more complicated way than would be necessary. Booking trains, for example; it seems you can’t book online with a foreign bank card, and booking the tickets at the stations is painful. Imagine long, unorderly lines of Indians who have no idea what a queue is, separate booking and inquiry offices and officials who don’t speak a word of English but who want you to fill in a form which then tells them which tickets to book… Yeah, that.
On top of this maps are useless because rarely the smaller streets are marked on them, and if you try to ask for directions, there’s a good chance that the person doesn’t understand English or just points you to whichever way because they don’t want to admit they don’t know. Maybe things would be different during the high season, but during monsoon the few hostels were rather quiet and socialising was at times hard, especially without the social lubricant friend alcohol. (Drinking is a bit of a taboo and night life is near to nonexistent as bars close at 11 p.m. latest.)
Travelling India was harder than, say, travelling Australia or Germany. However, I got to where I needed, I met some great new people and somehow in the middle of all this mess managed to have a blast. Even when India threw me a challenge, I loved taking it. With a bit of determination and loads, LOADS of patience India is not impossible to travel – even if you’re going there without a tour operator.
Do you have any prejudices about India? Would you travel there or have you already been?